Thursday, 5 March 2015

Wear Purple in honour of Dianna March 21st

A dear friend asked me how I plan to celebrate Mom's life...

Let's celebrate Dianna by wearing something Purple on March 21st!  Spread the word...


Tuesday, 3 March 2015

Accommodation info for out of town guests

For those people who are travelling to Comox to attend Mom's Celebration of LIfe on March 21st, we have arranged a group rate at the Holiday Inn Express & Suites in Courtenay.  It's about a 15 minute drive from here to the house.
Rate: $117/night plus 15% tax.  NOTE - there is a hockey tournemant in the Valley the weekend of Mom's celebration so room availability may be limited - book soon. Cut off date for booking under our group rate: March 7th

For ease of booking, I have included an internet booking hyperlink below. Click on the link to be redirected to the website and the block code and preferred rate will automatically populate.
 You can also book directly by dialing 778-225-0010 and quoting block code “BVR” 

Monday, 2 March 2015

I'm not going to miss you...

My good friend Darren's Mom - Ann Klingbeil sent me this video of Glenn Campbell singing his song "I'm not going to miss you".  Thank you Ann - Love to you!!

YouTube link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_2d-4gWOnTk

Lyrics:

"I'm Not Gonna Miss You"

I'm still here, but yet I'm gone
I don't play guitar or sing my songs
They never defined who I am
The man that loves you 'til the end

You're the last person I will love
You're the last face I will recall
And best of all, I'm not gonna miss you
I'm not gonna miss you
I'm not gonna miss you

I'm never gonna hold you like I did
Or say I love you to the kids
You're never gonna see it in my eyes
It's not gonna hurt me when you cry

I'm never gonna know what you go through
All the things I say or do

All the hurt and all the pain
One thing selfishly remains

I'm not gonna miss you
I'm not gonna miss you






Thursday, 26 February 2015

Join us for Dianna's Celebration of LIfe March 21, 2015

Please join us on Saturday March 21, 2015 to celebrate Dianna's life!

...at the family home in Comox...
1774 Astra Road
Ph: 250-339-5911

Time: 11 am - 2 pm
Lunch will be provided

For out-of-town guests:
We are in the process of securing a group rate for local accomodation and will provide more details shortly. Please check back...

Wear something Purple in honour of Di!

- bring your stories of Dianna to share -







Dianna passes away February 24, 2015

Dianna Patricia Caswell
August 28, 1941 - February 24, 2015

It is with great sadness we announce the passing of our beloved Dianna Patricia Caswell (nee Aziz).

Dianna is survived by her husband of 51 years Philip, son Scott (Lynn), daughter Lisa (Lester), sister Linda, sister Vicky (Bruce), brother Doug (Susan), brother Paul, and her grand dog - Bella.

Born in Toronto, Dianna raised her family primarily in Yellowknife and Prince George, and settled in the Comox Valley over two decades ago. She enjoyed a diverse career and was a dedicated public servant who retired from CFB Comox. Dianna cherished her family and friends, and relished her beautiful home by the ocean. Di's strong, creative, and adventurous spirit; her generosity, warmth and joie de vivre touched many many people.

The family extends their heart-felt appreciation to the dedicated team at Cumberland Lodge. A celebration of Dianna's life will be held at the family home on March 21, 2015.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Alzheimers Society of BC.

To be published in the Comox Valley Record March 5th, 2015



Sunday, 8 February 2015

Playful and Chatty

Mom really flourishes when she's around her family.  I've been here for the past 10 days and have enjoyed quite a few visits with her.  Some days she's been alert and engaging, some she's been tired and sleeping. Many days her neck is hyperextended and shes congested, and we do what we can to adjust her pillows and her broda to make her comfortable.  These pics really show off her bright clear eyes and contagious smile.  On this particular day Les was visiting with Dad and I, and Di was delightfully playful and chatty, very alert.




Saturday, 31 January 2015

How do you mend a broken heart?

The grief comes in waves. I'll be humming along feeling hopeful about life, and then out of nowhere, I'm overcome with a sadness that feels like it's going to consume me.

I was listening to some old Bee Gees tunes over lunch today thinking about Mom, and looking forward to seeing her soon (heading to Comox tomorrow). I always feel a little trepidatious when I'm getting ready to go. I think it's because I start to anticipate how I'll feel when I see her again. Will she remember me? Will I be afraid? Will I be brave? Will I be at peace knowing there is nothing to fear except fear itself?

The song 'How do you mend a broken heart' played and I was swepted up by a tide of loss. Grief sideswiped me.

Strangely, however hard it is, I seem to embrace the pain and in doing so, it passes through like an intense summer storm. And then it's over.

Bee Gees _ How Can You Mend a Broken Heart ('71) HQ (with lyrics ...

www.youtube.com/watch?v=2sN05AMV9gY